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Everything we’d tell you in the first hour.

Forty-odd pages of the things we say on repeat: the timeline, the budget model, the venue questions, and the running order from a real wedding. Written for people planning it themselves — including the ones who then decide they’d rather not.

What’s in it

  1. One

    The eighteen-month timeline

    What has to happen when, and — more usefully — what genuinely doesn’t have to happen yet. Four pages.

  2. Two

    A budget that survives contact

    The thirteen lines every wedding budget has, what each one really costs at 40, 90 and 150 guests, and where the money quietly leaks.

  3. Three

    Forty questions to ask a venue

    Including the eleven that reveal whether the price you were quoted is the price you will pay.

  4. Four

    Choosing suppliers

    How to read a photographer’s portfolio, what a caterer’s tasting doesn’t tell you, and the two clauses worth arguing about in any contract.

  5. Five

    The wedding-day running order

    A real one, annotated — the document fifteen suppliers work from, and why speeches go before dinner.

  6. Six

    The final week, and the box

    What to do in the last seven days, and the list of things to put in a box that has saved every wedding we’ve ever run.

One email with the guide, then one a month you can leave at any time. We don’t sell the list. There is nothing to sell it to.

Or use the tools here, free and without an email address:

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